As a matter of personal preference, I have a rule to not accept drinks from dudes in the club. Why, you might ask??? Simply because as a single woman, I highly value my FREEDOM. If I am in the club, I am trying to have a good time. The last thing I want is to feel like I have to be nice to you or have you follow me around the club or let you grind up and down, side to side against my ass… just because you spent $7 on me!!! I appreciate the gesture – but save your money ninja. Sorry… but buying me a drink does not automatically elevate you over the ranks of all the other hungry dudes in the room. Nice smile, good humor and interesting conversation will get you much further.
But that’s just me. I know some chicks who don’t believe in spending their own money in the club… But whatever, to each its own!
THE QUESTION IS… Guys, what is your expectation (if any) if you buy a woman a drink? Could she get away with a “thank you” and a smile without being called a name… or is there a minimum you ask in return? Do you subscribe to the T-Pain philosophy “Im ma buy you drink/Im ma take you home with me/Got money in the bank…” Let me hear it.
I don’t ever have the problem of having to turn down a drink. In fact, I often argue that men don’t buy women drinks anymore. But maybe that is because I am not willing to do the things you mention Coumba to work for that $7 drink. So true! I am curious also to know how hard women generally work to get a free drink..
Oh I’ve seen girls purposely laugh at a man’s wack ass jokes or even kiss him to get a drink. Then you have the total opposite: I’d had total stranger bitches that walk to me and bluntely ask “can you buy me a drink?”. That doesn’t work on me. Then again, they wouldn’t do it there were not some sucker dudes out there who fall for it, even if they represent a small minority. It doesn’t take much for a guy to think “oh maybe if I do this, she’ll gimme some”.
And to quote to the great Chris Rock: “Every time a man’s being nice to you [women], he’s offering you dick”.
I’m a college student so I say hell no , you buy your own damn drinks. and If I do buy you a drink thas all it is, it’s just a drink, nothing more, you dont owe me and I dont owe you nothin. I didnt ask you to sign a contract with a small print that said “must do such and such after drink is consumed” lol so no it’s a lil pathetic for girls to beg for drinks and it’s a lil pretentious for guys to expect some in return after they buy a girl a drink. Maybe a lil conversation is enough, but who knows I’m a noobie around town :).
i dont buy random girls drinks.. i do however buy my friends drinks, guy or girl.
but by my english calculations and non active surveying (that means that I never did them), the physiologically reason and only reason i would say a guy would buy a girl a drink at the bar is because they don’t know any other way to start a conversation. Buying a drink for them, in a way forces AT THE LEAST a small convo of “thank yous” and “your welcome’s”, which in then, breaks the ice. Some guys expect more, some guys expect less.. but all in all, that’s what it’s there for 😉 Guys thinks girls will like them if they buy them things.. well while this is true in a way, this is not the right reason that they should do it 😉
i’m just sayin
but i tell u what.. if a girl buys a guy a drink, without saying anything or trying to hit on him.. it says alot more because it’s unexpected.
you ladies should try that next time youre at a club..
or if your guy date opens the door for you to get in his car, then while walking around, the girl opens the door for him from the inside.. that’s probably the coolest feeling ever for the guy. trust me. its the little things that we appreciate 😉 I’m just sayin..
lmmfao Bak! I had a girl ask me if I could by her a drink once. I looked at her and said yeah I can but, can you buy me a drink? Then I walked away.
Well there is a difference between buying a drink or buying a few drinks, so girls accepting a few drinks may wake up the next morning blaming it on the alcohol.