So, I will admit that I am not a frequent party goer, however when I go out I wanna dance to and enjoy the company of my friends. Why is it when you go the bar to get a drink, there is that one dude that acts like you are the most beautiful person there and his life will end if he doesn’t get your name or number? Really? Then you proceed to attempt to have small talk and the first question is where is your man? I respond with I don’t have one. Meanwhile, he has on a wedding ring. Really, why are you are trying to get my name and number when you have a wife and children at home. I am so annoyed with this lame tactic that I no longer enjoy the experience of going out and dancing or just having fun.
So, to all those dudes who think that is my purpose and intent, it is NOT. I just wanna mind my own business and really don’t want to be your girlfriend while you have a wife too. Ugh, so annoyed and need my ladies to tell me how they feel. Gentlemen you are welcome to comment as well if your married friends behave in this lame disrespectful manner.
lol it’s not a matter of having a wife or children or any of that…he’s out and he wants what he’s lacking at home or what he just wants from a diff person. And uhh…yeah for that one night or whatever night he goes out he wants it…it’s as simple as that.
Well…..I will pass and he needs to talk to his wife about the things he is lacking. I refuse to be a “jump-off”. I am just saying, simple as that!
Yes! people still do go out to “hook up” as for the married men and woman that go out to hook up, thats a whole nother topic.Personally I think its wrong, I mean atleast take the ring off. As for the cheesy pick up lines that chumps use to try and hook up, thats they’re way of attempting to spark up a convo which normally ends up in an akward silence. It happens to men and woman alike. I personally am single and love it when any girl attempts to hit on me married or no. Like last night, I purposely went out in my suit. When a girl approached me and said, “hey why are you so dressed up?” ,I replied; “oh I just got out of church and now im taking shots………for Christ.
We both started crackin up, it made for a good night.
Now if you want to be left alone im sure you can always say something to get rid of the guy, especially the married ones, before they even speak.
Ask them how their wife is doing or something , that should work.
Mmmm… TZoumy… Tanou, is that you? Your comments are starting to scare me. I thought we taught you better than that. LOL. Seriously though, booooooooooo 🙁
married man need extra loving too
Man alive. This has been going on since the beginning of time and goes with the territory. Tell’em I’m not ephin with you and get on with your night….or here’s a novel tell them your man is else where. By the way he might really think you’re the most beautiful person there. Just sayin.
P.S. Tzoumy that was just a little creepy.
Love your post, Catina. I totally agree….Unfortunately, shit like this happens all the time…