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		<title>Comment on An Unlucky Patron at The Park by Coumba Z</title>
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		<dc:creator>Coumba Z</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 May 2012 15:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Los, you are not alone!!!! I am a regular patron at the Park also but have had the same experiences lately. Yes, the place is busy every night of the week... Yes, the daily schedule of events is rather cool.. Yes, your Sunday brunch menu still remains one of my favorites in town... Yes, your waitresses are rather bustylicious... but c&#039;me on, son... Imma need them to do better. I am really just about over the Park right now mostly for that reason. No one likes to be taken for granted, especially when you are a loyal customer. Thank you for bringing the issue up. I hope management addresses the issue with their staff &amp; finds some new people.

PS: Caroline is great... She does deserves some props for being above the grade from her peers!.. Big shout-out to Wendy also :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Los, you are not alone!!!! I am a regular patron at the Park also but have had the same experiences lately. Yes, the place is busy every night of the week&#8230; Yes, the daily schedule of events is rather cool.. Yes, your Sunday brunch menu still remains one of my favorites in town&#8230; Yes, your waitresses are rather bustylicious&#8230; but c&#8217;me on, son&#8230; Imma need them to do better. I am really just about over the Park right now mostly for that reason. No one likes to be taken for granted, especially when you are a loyal customer. Thank you for bringing the issue up. I hope management addresses the issue with their staff &amp; finds some new people.</p>
<p>PS: Caroline is great&#8230; She does deserves some props for being above the grade from her peers!.. Big shout-out to Wendy also <img src='http://www.thefeedbak.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on Knuckle Rumbler Presents: Rise N&#8217; Shine 4/20 by Gabriel</title>
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		<dc:creator>Gabriel</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Apr 2012 22:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>420 in three words-&quot;Love getting high&quot;! </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>420 in three words-&#8221;Love getting high&#8221;! </p>
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		<title>Comment on Knuckle Rumbler Presents: Rise N&#8217; Shine 4/20 by Skipthevm</title>
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		<dc:creator>Skipthevm</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2012 22:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>420 in three words.... Umm.      An Everyday thing!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Bartender Wants To Fight! by Melissa Hess</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa Hess</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Apr 2012 20:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>HELLS YEAH!!!!! 
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		<title>Comment on Texas Relays vs. Racism by Crissy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Crissy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Apr 2012 07:14:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Melanie, my follow up comment was not directed at you specifically. It was a general response. Yes, you are absolutely correct that during any big event is Austin people intentionally act stupid &amp; numerous arrests are made. For me personally, the difference I most often observe between the above listed events and TXR is the roadways. It would be expected that downtown traffic is higly frustrating due to influx of people. But during TXR I see people all hours of the day on roads (residential &amp; Hwy) that choose to drive in a recklass manner just to show off. This is why I get pissed off, but God forbid me curse someone out for it because then I&#039;m automatically &#039;racist&#039;.....I am ackowledging that racism exists, it always has and sadly probably always will. However, my entire point of the post is that racism should not be the default explanation for everything. I am stressing the fact that there are others reason as to why TXR can annoy people. 

As for my comment about making $$ any other time of the year, I&#039;m sorry you take offense to this. I think you are misinterpreting it however. No, I am not saying that black peole don&#039;t spend $$. I am simply making note of economics. I am saying that since the business owners don&#039;t mind accpeting $$ from black folks most of the year, why would they suddenly refuse it for this? Many of the business that close during TXR weekend tend to have a predominatly white college kid clientele. If the main customer bases doesn&#039;t show up (for reasons of racism, comfort, w/e) then the bar wont make money.

 As for spending $$ at the bars in general...well, when I first moved to Austin I also thought that many places were extremely racist due to their selective &amp; often made up dress code policies to allow entrace of blacks guys into bars. I thought this for years. It wasn&#039;t until I had numerous conversations with people (mostly black) that have worked as doormen and/or bartenders. As it has been explained to me (mind you these are not my own words, I&#039;m just repeating what I&#039;ve been told): &quot;Most black people dont tip much, and we have a maximun capacity of 350 people, so in order to ensure we bring in a good amount of tips for our workers, we have to be selective and try to get the people in that we think will tip well&quot; - Does this sound racist yes, it does. But unfortunatley this policy derived from experiences and the only way to adjust this mindset is by proving them worng. I&#039;m by no means saying that what they are doing is moral. I&#039;m simply saying that money is more powerful than race. 

Finally, about my statement mentioned in your last paragraph, no, not everyone that goes out during TXR acts a damn fool, but do many? Yes. As it reads, &quot;you either know what is saying is true or you&#039;re mad......&quot; I am simply saying that if someone can actually say my hypothesis , ~&quot;But just because people and businesses speak/act unfavorably about it does not automatically mean they are racist. &quot;~ is wrong, and debate that my supporting factors are false, then they may be mad. But I feel pretty confident that anyone who has driven in the streets, ran a business and/or experienced the influx of bad attitudes that (unfortunatly) come with TXR then they know there is some truth in my statement. Personally, the majority of negative remarks I hear from people about TXR does not come from white people and/or people that work in bars downtown. It comes from immgrants (mostly from various African nations) that work in the public service sector. If they can be black and have the same (sometimes worse) perceptions about the weekend, then maybe race is the ultimate factor.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Melanie, my follow up comment was not directed at you specifically. It was a general response. Yes, you are absolutely correct that during any big event is Austin people intentionally act stupid &amp; numerous arrests are made. For me personally, the difference I most often observe between the above listed events and TXR is the roadways. It would be expected that downtown traffic is higly frustrating due to influx of people. But during TXR I see people all hours of the day on roads (residential &amp; Hwy) that choose to drive in a recklass manner just to show off. This is why I get pissed off, but God forbid me curse someone out for it because then I&#8217;m automatically &#8216;racist&#8217;&#8230;..I am ackowledging that racism exists, it always has and sadly probably always will. However, my entire point of the post is that racism should not be the default explanation for everything. I am stressing the fact that there are others reason as to why TXR can annoy people. </p>
<p>As for my comment about making $$ any other time of the year, I&#8217;m sorry you take offense to this. I think you are misinterpreting it however. No, I am not saying that black peole don&#8217;t spend $$. I am simply making note of economics. I am saying that since the business owners don&#8217;t mind accpeting $$ from black folks most of the year, why would they suddenly refuse it for this? Many of the business that close during TXR weekend tend to have a predominatly white college kid clientele. If the main customer bases doesn&#8217;t show up (for reasons of racism, comfort, w/e) then the bar wont make money.</p>
<p> As for spending $$ at the bars in general&#8230;well, when I first moved to Austin I also thought that many places were extremely racist due to their selective &amp; often made up dress code policies to allow entrace of blacks guys into bars. I thought this for years. It wasn&#8217;t until I had numerous conversations with people (mostly black) that have worked as doormen and/or bartenders. As it has been explained to me (mind you these are not my own words, I&#8217;m just repeating what I&#8217;ve been told): &#8220;Most black people dont tip much, and we have a maximun capacity of 350 people, so in order to ensure we bring in a good amount of tips for our workers, we have to be selective and try to get the people in that we think will tip well&#8221; &#8211; Does this sound racist yes, it does. But unfortunatley this policy derived from experiences and the only way to adjust this mindset is by proving them worng. I&#8217;m by no means saying that what they are doing is moral. I&#8217;m simply saying that money is more powerful than race. </p>
<p>Finally, about my statement mentioned in your last paragraph, no, not everyone that goes out during TXR acts a damn fool, but do many? Yes. As it reads, &#8220;you either know what is saying is true or you&#8217;re mad&#8230;&#8230;&#8221; I am simply saying that if someone can actually say my hypothesis , ~&#8221;But just because people and businesses speak/act unfavorably about it does not automatically mean they are racist. &#8220;~ is wrong, and debate that my supporting factors are false, then they may be mad. But I feel pretty confident that anyone who has driven in the streets, ran a business and/or experienced the influx of bad attitudes that (unfortunatly) come with TXR then they know there is some truth in my statement. Personally, the majority of negative remarks I hear from people about TXR does not come from white people and/or people that work in bars downtown. It comes from immgrants (mostly from various African nations) that work in the public service sector. If they can be black and have the same (sometimes worse) perceptions about the weekend, then maybe race is the ultimate factor.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Texas Relays vs. Racism by Melanie Melrose Rhodes</title>
		<link>http://www.thefeedbak.com/2012/04/texas-relays-vs-racism/comment-page-1/#comment-462</link>
		<dc:creator>Melanie Melrose Rhodes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 08 Apr 2012 05:02:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>A lot of people intentionally act stupid during SxSW.  A lot of people intentionally act stupid during Mardi Gras.  A lot of people intentionally act stupid during Halloween festivities.  More arrests are made during these times due to &#039;stupidity&#039; than during Texas Relay weekend.  However, businesses do not close during those events.  This is where the derived perception of racism or prejudice comes from.  When businesses shut their doors during other events due to potential &#039;obnoxious&#039; or &#039;disrespectful&#039; behavior, I might be more convinced that the closing of doors during Texas Relay weekend is not racially motivated.

In my initial response, I never stated you were racist for voicing your opinion.  Nor am I jumping to conclusions or making assumptions.  I am observing and responding to what I have observed year after year during this time.  You make a blanket statement that &#039;racists do exist.&#039;  But you fail to correlate that racism in any way to being the reason why businesses close during this event, attended predominately by Black people.

In your response, I take high offense to the comment you make &quot;Any other time of the year they have no problem doing business with other races, because it is profitable.&quot;  What you&#039;ve said is that Black people don&#039;t spend money, which isn&#039;t true.  Texas Relay weekend is still a multi-million dollar profitable weekend.  Even with businesses closed, it rakes in an estimated $8 million dollars.

In your original post you state, &quot;You either know what I&#039;m saying is true, or you&#039;re mad - and I bet if you&#039;re mad it&#039;s because you&#039;re part of the problem.&quot;  Crissy, if you knew me, you would retract that statement.  I, in no way, &#039;act a damn fool.&#039;  I support downtown businesses with my hard-earned money.  And my attitude is only to those who are closed-minded and think their view is the only view.  Be open and receptive to the thought that maybe someone thinks differently than you.  Just because someone disagrees with you, doesn&#039;t make them wrong or to blame for the issue at hand.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of people intentionally act stupid during SxSW.  A lot of people intentionally act stupid during Mardi Gras.  A lot of people intentionally act stupid during Halloween festivities.  More arrests are made during these times due to &#8216;stupidity&#8217; than during Texas Relay weekend.  However, businesses do not close during those events.  This is where the derived perception of racism or prejudice comes from.  When businesses shut their doors during other events due to potential &#8216;obnoxious&#8217; or &#8216;disrespectful&#8217; behavior, I might be more convinced that the closing of doors during Texas Relay weekend is not racially motivated.</p>
<p>In my initial response, I never stated you were racist for voicing your opinion.  Nor am I jumping to conclusions or making assumptions.  I am observing and responding to what I have observed year after year during this time.  You make a blanket statement that &#8216;racists do exist.&#8217;  But you fail to correlate that racism in any way to being the reason why businesses close during this event, attended predominately by Black people.</p>
<p>In your response, I take high offense to the comment you make &#8220;Any other time of the year they have no problem doing business with other races, because it is profitable.&#8221;  What you&#8217;ve said is that Black people don&#8217;t spend money, which isn&#8217;t true.  Texas Relay weekend is still a multi-million dollar profitable weekend.  Even with businesses closed, it rakes in an estimated $8 million dollars.</p>
<p>In your original post you state, &#8220;You either know what I&#8217;m saying is true, or you&#8217;re mad &#8211; and I bet if you&#8217;re mad it&#8217;s because you&#8217;re part of the problem.&#8221;  Crissy, if you knew me, you would retract that statement.  I, in no way, &#8216;act a damn fool.&#8217;  I support downtown businesses with my hard-earned money.  And my attitude is only to those who are closed-minded and think their view is the only view.  Be open and receptive to the thought that maybe someone thinks differently than you.  Just because someone disagrees with you, doesn&#8217;t make them wrong or to blame for the issue at hand.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Texas Relays vs. Racism by Crissy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Crissy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Apr 2012 05:11:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description> At no point did I say race is not a factor - please refer to sentence 1 
of paragraph 2. And no I&#039;m not black so I can&#039;t pretend to know what it 
is like to be black, But what I do know is that a lot of people 
intentionally act really stupid during TX Relay weekend. Yes, there is racial tension in this town, every day of the year, and all that stupid behavior (as noted in original post)
 only serves to perpetuate those racist ideas people hold. Additionally 
when anyone speaks unfavorably of TXR weekend (many) black people 
automatically assume the speaker is racist I don&#039;t care how many black, 
or whatever color people I am surrounded by. I do however care for the 
character of those people. When someone conducts them-self in an 
obnoxious &amp; disrespectful manner I tend to not be so fond of it. 
This year I worked all weekend so I was unable to go out. But, I would 
have really appreciated it if I would have been able get to work without
 dealing with irresponsible drivers showing off for each other in the 
roadways &amp; people running across the street whenever they feel like 
it despite oncoming traffic. Yes, this happens to some degree on any 
weekend, but during TXR its an extremely higher degree. All I&#039;m saying 
is that race is not the only factor as to why TXR weekend gets on some 
people&#039;s nerves. Whoever in this town is racist is going to be racist 
year-round. Any other time of the year they have no problem doing 
business with other races, because it is profitable. So just maybe their a correlation between the stupid behaviors and inability to make profit.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> At no point did I say race is not a factor &#8211; please refer to sentence 1<br />
of paragraph 2. And no I&#8217;m not black so I can&#8217;t pretend to know what it<br />
is like to be black, But what I do know is that a lot of people<br />
intentionally act really stupid during TX Relay weekend. Yes, there is racial tension in this town, every day of the year, and all that stupid behavior (as noted in original post)<br />
 only serves to perpetuate those racist ideas people hold. Additionally<br />
when anyone speaks unfavorably of TXR weekend (many) black people<br />
automatically assume the speaker is racist I don&#8217;t care how many black,<br />
or whatever color people I am surrounded by. I do however care for the<br />
character of those people. When someone conducts them-self in an<br />
obnoxious &amp; disrespectful manner I tend to not be so fond of it.<br />
This year I worked all weekend so I was unable to go out. But, I would<br />
have really appreciated it if I would have been able get to work without<br />
 dealing with irresponsible drivers showing off for each other in the<br />
roadways &amp; people running across the street whenever they feel like<br />
it despite oncoming traffic. Yes, this happens to some degree on any<br />
weekend, but during TXR its an extremely higher degree. All I&#8217;m saying<br />
is that race is not the only factor as to why TXR weekend gets on some<br />
people&#8217;s nerves. Whoever in this town is racist is going to be racist<br />
year-round. Any other time of the year they have no problem doing<br />
business with other races, because it is profitable. So just maybe their a correlation between the stupid behaviors and inability to make profit.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Displaced Employees, Gigs &amp; Events Associated with Yassine Enterprises Troubles by Melissa Hess</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melissa Hess</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2012 20:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So I posted this story early last week and have added several links to related news since. Today is another sad day in this story because Stack Burger Bar is shutting its doors. IF YOU KNOW OF ANY BAR OR RESTAURANT HIRING PLEASE POST TO THIS STORY SO WE CAN HELP OUR FRIENDS!!!!! I heard that Niche Lounge is doing interviews today at 6pm. ** New**Niche Lounge Job/Casting TONIGHT!: https://www.facebook.com/events/197457953699766/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So I posted this story early last week and have added several links to related news since. Today is another sad day in this story because Stack Burger Bar is shutting its doors. IF YOU KNOW OF ANY BAR OR RESTAURANT HIRING PLEASE POST TO THIS STORY SO WE CAN HELP OUR FRIENDS!!!!! I heard that Niche Lounge is doing interviews today at 6pm. ** New**Niche Lounge Job/Casting TONIGHT!: https://www.facebook.com/events/197457953699766/</p>
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		<title>Comment on Texas Relays vs. Racism by Melanie Melrose Rhodes</title>
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		<dc:creator>Melanie Melrose Rhodes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Apr 2012 03:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you think race is not a factor, you are absolutely delusional.  If you cannot admit to the racial tension that exists in the city of Austin (especially during Texas Relay weekend), maybe you need a new prescription; because those rose colored glasses you are looking through have your vision blurry.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you think race is not a factor, you are absolutely delusional.  If you cannot admit to the racial tension that exists in the city of Austin (especially during Texas Relay weekend), maybe you need a new prescription; because those rose colored glasses you are looking through have your vision blurry.</p>
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		<title>Comment on How and When To Request a Song From A DJ by Chase ChesterRoy Marz</title>
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		<dc:creator>Chase ChesterRoy Marz</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2012 14:31:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Only thing I would have added is; if you request a song and it hasn&#039;t been played yet, don&#039;t send up each member of your group to ask for the same song. I see the logic is, &quot;if more people request it, he has to play it!&quot;. No, no I don&#039;t. Otherwise, great post!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Only thing I would have added is; if you request a song and it hasn&#8217;t been played yet, don&#8217;t send up each member of your group to ask for the same song. I see the logic is, &#8220;if more people request it, he has to play it!&#8221;. No, no I don&#8217;t. Otherwise, great post!</p>
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